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6.Men are instinctively hunters.  They like the challenge of catching something.  The harder they have to work for something, the more they appreciate it when they get it.  LET HIM CALL YOU!  If he doesn’t maintain consistent contact with you, “he’s just not that into you.” Move on.  It’s his place to suggest and confirm dates. I know it’s hard to wait. Find things to do that value YOU as you wait.  Then, you won’t act frustrated when you see him.  Girls who act entitled are a real turn off!

5. When a woman is trying too hard, a man will usually test to see how hard she’s willing to work for it. He’ll start throwing relationship Frisbees, just to see how hard she’ll run and how high she’ll jump.

4. Men see how you dress and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.  Dress with strength and dignity.  Show that you take pride in your appearance,  It’s OK not to wear make up. (Especially as young as you both are.  You are both so gorgeous you don’t need make up.) Be good to yourself. Have your sisters help you with your nails. Be sure to wear a smile.   🙂

3. Don’t believe what anyone tells you about yourself.  What they are saying might be more about THEM, than it is about you.  Decide who you are and live your life that way. (Sitting with a counselor can be different IF they are truly trying to help you be a better more positive person).

2.It’s called a break up BECAUSE it is broken.  After a break up, give yourself and your ex at least two months of not communicating.  This clears your head(and his) and prevents you from doing stupid things like – getting back together without healing the problem that started the situation in the first place.

1. In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

I know you are getting older and boys might be entering the picture (albeit on a limited basis) but I thought a place to address this fact might be a good thing.  When Purity last slept over, I gave her a book written by a female author about how to

deal with the men folk.  The book was called Why Men Marry Bitches.  I know that last word is a bit extreme, but as Purity read it doesn’t mean you become this crazy mean woman to secure a man’s love.  No, quite the opposite.  That word is an acronym for the following idea:

B = Babe – That’s You, Honey!

I = In

T = TOTAL (all/complete)

C = Control

H = (of her) Head

You do not let ANYONE shake you off this place.  Perhaps you understand now why I’ve acted as I have in our situation.  Drama gets you no where but more insecure.  You don’t want that.  You want control.  You keep control (in lieu of situations like a death or tragedy of some kind) at ALL times.  You find your dignity and personal pride and hold onto it.  Period.  So, I hope to be adding a post every so often to help you do this, my sweet sisters.  Use it or not as you wish.  I was skeptical at first too.

2 thoughts on “Sisterly Advice”

  1. scribe on July 18, 2015

    Turns out I can’t add posts to this page. I’m just going to have to keep editing it.

  2. scribe on July 21, 2015

    Advice I wish I’d gotten a while ago.

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