The ten days after Rosh Hashana are known as the Days of Awe. During this time, Jews reflect on the things they’ve done wrong over the past year and seek forgiveness.

So my darling girls, I want to officially apologize to you for my part in the family situation.  If I were a better team builder, perhaps this might not have happened.

I’m really not sure what else can be done at this point and I’m sorry about that too.

I wish that being an adult meant that you know what to do in difficult situations, but I’m just not sure how to proceed.

I know what the parents want me to do.  I’m sorry.  I just refuse to do this.  Self respect keeps me from doing it.  I also do not feel you both need to see another family scene.  I’m pretty sure one would happen and frankly, I’m sick of them.

This issue in the family is quite a bit older than you might imagine.  We’re talking as far back as 1989.  Yes, over two decades.  I’m just so tired of minimalizing my feelings for some one else’s need to be self- righteous.  So I’m just (lovingly but resolutely) stepping back from the situation until those involved can find a bit of personal insight.  I love you and I’m here.  Count on it!  Xxoo

Prudence